welcome to another installment of Yahoo answers and Dear Abigail. as usual, Anna Morden and Mary Blair channel their centuries-deceased witch-mum to entertain and delight trans, trans-curious, transgenders, trans-skeptics, and trans-eradicationists.
Dear Abigail, Am I genderfluid? I’m so confused about who I am. I’m a fourteen year old, pansexual girl, but sometimes I feel like I’m a boy. I don’t know if I’m genderfluid or not, I’m just confused.
I would say 2/7 days of the week I want to be a boy, I want to be manly, I don’t want to have boobs and a vagina. But I’m not sure if this is just a phase I’m going through where I want to be a boy.
I’m also afraid that my family will hate me if I tell them that I think I’m genderfluid since my mum has said multiple times she doesn’t like transgenders. And most of my family will think I’m doing this for attention (like how they said when I came out as pansexual).
Am I genderfluid or not? Please I need help. – Lara
Anna says: I wouldn’t worry about being gender fluid. By definition of gender, Mary Blair is as fluid as they come. I’ve seen her rock a little black dress, shiny sheer stockings, pretty toes in pantyhose, and flattering highheels looking quite sexually available, and with her long hair and some lipstick, very feminine. But I have also seen her at her jujitsu class, putting guys in arm-bars and making them tap-out with chokes applied while they were on top of her. And she also rocks a mean Terminator look sometimes, jeans, manly boots, sunglasses walking with upright confidence, with no makeup on or girly bling to speak of.
Being female is great in that you can morph other people’s genderstraightjackets, several times a day if you like. She never “feels like a boy” when getting girly, or doing her warrior-woman thing. She has no gender, meaning she is all gender, and the very definition of gender-fluid, able to mix and match from male-female sociotypical behaviouralpresets and never worries about whether that makes her a guy. She does not “identify” as genderfluid, genderqueer, agender, transgender, or any of that. She saw through the illusion of gender, and now acts or dresses however she chooses, and always considers herself female. Perhaps in time, you will too.
Also, you are almost certainly a heterosexual woman, and yes, you came out as pansexual just to test the waters/get a reaction/get attention from your family. To shock them basically. Because you are a confused teenager. It is also highly unlikely you are not a virgin, and it’s doubtful you have had sex with a male, a female, a bisexual person, or a transsexual pre or post-op. You really just need to get off the internet, and grow up. (Yahoo source)
now you may recall, i said the Yahoo Transgender Answers is a target-rich environment for finding failed transsexuals, wannabe/fake transsexuals, and trans-curious insanity. sure enough guess who we found commenting again within the last forty-eight hours? if you guess “Clones Don’t Have 400,000 Points” whose profile states he is here (trolling Yahoo) to “educate”. we found another one just like him, but rather then being post-transition trans-identified, this user, “Zaron”, is a seriously troubled teenager who is attempting to pass himself off as a transsexual, when he has not come out to his parents, had SRS, or HRT, or RLT, or gendertherapy – but if you look at his comment/question/topic-making history, he is making a very noobish attempt to make it seem like he is “somewhere in transition”, but he has never started transition, and it’s obvious, to an intelligent adult who studies psychology as one of her primary past-times.
Dear Abigail/Transphobes, Could you please explain to me what it is you want us to do? Every time I don *anything* to stand up for myself of trans people it’s considered over militant or over reacting. So what isn’t considered over militant or over reacting? What is it you want me to do? Should trans people let everyone trample over them?
I never stand up for myself now because I don’t want to be overzealous. This is the only thing I can think to do. My mouth is zipped shut. Am I a good trans girl? Am I how trans people should be, a role model? I hope I’m being a good representative of the trans community by doing this. I never speak up, ever. I’m not one of the vocal minority who are extremists, and I apologize for them. – Zaron
Mary says: Zaron, Zaron, Zaron. i would try finishing up growing into manhood, if I were you, and stop pretending you are a transitioned transsexual on yahoo answers. see details:
Yahoo Answers, Topic started by Zaron: “How do I make it look like I have breasts? (trans) I tried stuffing my shirt with socks, but it always looks weird. I can’t get the shape of it right. So what can I do? Yahoo Source: here
Yahoo Answers, Topic started by Zaron: “Is there such a thing as reverse true scum?” – “I’ve noticed that some trans people seem to be the opposite of true scum, and rather than saying you aren’t trans if you don’t have dysphoria, they say dysphoria is invalid. That has the same problem because you’re deciding things about other people’s gender for them.” Yahoo Source: here
And here, Zaron replies to an admitted troll, who asked “why don’t trans women admit that they WERE a man?” by replying, “I used to live as a boy. That doesn’t mean I was one.”
i see through you, Zaron, sissyboy. can’t hack it as a man eh? wow. early societal failure. a male-born using an avatar that hints of looking like Jessica Sideways, claiming in the space of a week, that he used to live as a boy, and, that he needed help trying to stuff his bra because socks were not shaping right.
and look who showed up to young Zaron’s Yahoo-Question, a late transitioner TOOTSIE named “PamM” right on schedule. another “Transgender for those who are not” type, late transitioner, aka, autogynephilic pervert preying on someone he thinks is a just-starting out transsexual.
the first piece of advice Pam offers to Zaron, involves pantyhose! What else?
welcome to the Transclub Zaron, you managed to lure one of those nasty older male Transvestites who LUV FESTISHIZING YOUNG TRANSPEOPLE, because they are jealous, unpassable, and perverts, and you have not even taken a single estrogen. you’re just a trans-curious troll teen, and you got your first late-life mtf stalker already. nice job.
we have to get back to “Clones Don’t Have 400, 000 (wastedlife) Points”
Dear Abigail, Is it transphobic to find transgender unattractive? – Anonymous
Mary says: it is very reasonable in light of what we call on this blog the “Alice Cooper Twisted Sister” look, to find men who transitioned into men in drag with women’s names unattractive. we are sex-wired to find members of the same or opposite sex attractive, and transgenders look like Frankensteinian Mistakes – men, who failed to become female through the application of modern medicine. and yes, it renders them unattractive to both sexes. that’s their fault. not society’s. they can always detransition or commit suicide to avoid being ridiculed for a bad sex change. either is fine with me.
but this little shit, “Clones Don’t Have 400,00 Life-wasted-on-the-internet-Points”, is another “Dr. Donna” from Jezebel comments type, late-transitioner, utterly unpassable, doesn’t even use a womanesque name like Pam the Transvestite on Hormones. remember, ClonesDH4kP is here, “to educate”, and his profile is filled with links to transition resources for beginning transsexuals and life-style transgenders alike.
this idiot responds to Anonymous with,
“Hate to tell you, but you’ve probably met (and liked) a couple dozen transsexual people and never even knew it. See your question is based on a false premise, that you can tell who is trans and who isn’t and usually you can’t. I won’t say it’s transphobic, but it does indicate you have a prejudice.” ClonesDon’tHave400,000Points Clone’s “to educate” profile: here
well, i hate to be the one to burst your fantasy werld, Clones, but this is called a “Trans Trope”. statistics seem to indicate Transsexuals are extremely rare, and tend to be concentrated in liberal cities with protections and free services and antidiscrimination laws. meaning….what? one does not simply meet and like dozens(!) of transsexuals, and never know it. Clones should have never transitioned. that is three times I have seen pure 100% transdelusion coming from this person, as they grind towards 1,000,000 points of wasted-on-yahooanswers-life. Clones is gross, probably spergtastic or awwwtiztic, or both, or something. never leaves his computer. is never seen in public. and unlike all the other Yahoo trannys, Clones can’t even use a girl name. wtf.
you create propaganda, “…dozens of transsexuals…met and liked…without ever knowing they were trans…”
and I cause a counter-spin, “most transsexuals are unpassable, and what few concentrations of them there are exist in larger-ish cities”,
witch means…if you don’t live in those cities, and do not attend a liberal Uni, your chances of seeing one of these easy-to-see from a distance male medical mutants is extremely slim
that is how i deal with crazy people. i provide the anticrazy. the antidote you are never ready to take. until next time.